Sunday, August 22, 2010

YOU ARE NOT THE WORST

YOU ARE STILL

NOT THE WORST

Do you always complain that you are in the worst situation in this world ? and that no one is more unlucky than you are ?

If you do, please STOP complaining about this anymore !!!

There are many people in the world that have come across even worse situation than you do.

They are many people who are still unable to feed their ownselves.

Successful people who found that they are suffering terminal disease in their early age stage.

Hardworking students who still fail in their exam.

Very poor children finding their food through garbage stand.

Compared to those mentioned above, the situation you are in is NOTHING.

So DO NOT complain !!! Keep working hard for what you have been pursuing for.

Not Tommorow, Not Later, But RIGHT NOW !!!

Monday, August 16, 2010

FACE STRONGER OPPONENT

FACE STRONGER OPPONENT

IF YOU WANT TO BE STONGER

Most people avoid facing stronger opponents.

Be it in a competition, through out the career path or even in the daily life.

A weaker person can be much stronger in a shorter period if they face a stronger opponent more often.

The weaker ones should be happy and more willing to face the stronger ones.

As the stronger ones face the weaker ones, their abilities and standards would seem to drop.

They are the ones who should avoid the weaker ones.

On the other hand, the weaker ones tend to improve in more aspects as they face the stronger ones.

Do not believe it ? Start to notice the people around you and you will believe what has been written above.

Sunday, August 15, 2010

ASSOCIATE WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE

ASSOCIATE WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE


One of the way to be positive enough is to mix around positive people.

Associate with Goal-Oriented and Optimistic People around you.

You might not believe this but this is one of the way that makes you more positive from day to day.

The effect is slow and not immediate.

Although it is not noticeable, but once you are being influenced by the positive energy, such positive attitude would last long enough in your body and mindset to make you a perfect positive person.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

BROADER SHOULDER

BROADER SHOULDER,
NOT LIGHTER BURDEN

I would always recommend to have broader shoulder, instead of asking for a lighter burden.

If you keep asking for lighter burden and keep asking why you are given so much tasks to carry out and complete, you will never learn much and will never be a successful person.

I would rather ask myself to have a broader shoulder.

Especially for those who are still young, they should get their body and mind to work harder and accept more challenge, which I mean broader shoulder.

Broader shoulder means more tasks being completed, which also means more experience in a short period of time.

You choose it. Broader Shoulder OR Lighter Burden.

Saturday, July 31, 2010

MOVE ON

NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS,
MOVE ON

The earth is moving every second, the clock ticks every second.

While they are moving and clicking, good and bad things could happen.

Some may experience happiness, some may be suffering from sorts of troubles and problems that they are facing.

Whatever and however much you are being worried, you just have to move on.

Along the way, going through the process, it might leave some painful memories in you and there might be somethings that hurt you so much that make you keep thinking about such things.

But life will still have to move on. And if so, why do we choose to be thinking about those unhappiness ?

Move on with optimistic mindset now and treat every problem, pain and unhappiness as part of your experience and sacrifice that you just need to make your life better in the coming days.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

OPPORTUNITIES IN DIFFICULTIES

THERE ARE OPPORTUNITIES
IN EVERY DIFFICULTIES

Do not always think about difficulties only.

Within any difficulties, we should always think whether there are any oppotunities beneath them and what are the possible opportunities.

Some people who are optimistic, when they face problems and difficulties, they would always think how to solve and find out any opportunities out of the problem.

However, for those who are pessimistic, they would only think that there are always problems and difficulties that can not be solved, or problems even solved would come one after another. And this cause them the opportunities which are just next to them.

I like this quote by Harry Truman :

"A pessimist is one who makes difficulties of his opportunities and an optimist is one who makes opportunities of his difficulties"

Sunday, July 25, 2010

TO BE PERFECT BEFORE DOING IT ?

DO NOT WAIT FOR THINGS
TO BE PERFECT TO DO IT

It is good to be perfect and it is still good to be perfect in doing things.

However, if you spend too much time to make things to be perfect, it would not take you far as early as you can.

Lots of people always think it must be perfect before it should be carried out, it should be perfect before it is to be shown to someone else.

But they had spent too much of the time in trying to make things to be perfect before they actually started to do it.

I would say that we should do it once we are confidence that it is good enough to be done and not to wait till it is 100% perfect.

And along the way, we would fix it to be perfect.