NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS,
MOVE ON
The earth is moving every second, the clock ticks every second.
While they are moving and clicking, good and bad things could happen.
Some may experience happiness, some may be suffering from sorts of troubles and problems that they are facing.
Whatever and however much you are being worried, you just have to move on.
Along the way, going through the process, it might leave some painful memories in you and there might be somethings that hurt you so much that make you keep thinking about such things.
But life will still have to move on. And if so, why do we choose to be thinking about those unhappiness ?
Move on with optimistic mindset now and treat every problem, pain and unhappiness as part of your experience and sacrifice that you just need to make your life better in the coming days.
be positive and you will find your ways .......
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
OPPORTUNITIES IN DIFFICULTIES
THERE ARE OPPORTUNITIES
IN EVERY DIFFICULTIES
Do not always think about difficulties only.
Within any difficulties, we should always think whether there are any oppotunities beneath them and what are the possible opportunities.
Some people who are optimistic, when they face problems and difficulties, they would always think how to solve and find out any opportunities out of the problem.
However, for those who are pessimistic, they would only think that there are always problems and difficulties that can not be solved, or problems even solved would come one after another. And this cause them the opportunities which are just next to them.
I like this quote by Harry Truman :
"A pessimist is one who makes difficulties of his opportunities and an optimist is one who makes opportunities of his difficulties"
IN EVERY DIFFICULTIES
Do not always think about difficulties only.
Within any difficulties, we should always think whether there are any oppotunities beneath them and what are the possible opportunities.
Some people who are optimistic, when they face problems and difficulties, they would always think how to solve and find out any opportunities out of the problem.
However, for those who are pessimistic, they would only think that there are always problems and difficulties that can not be solved, or problems even solved would come one after another. And this cause them the opportunities which are just next to them.
I like this quote by Harry Truman :
"A pessimist is one who makes difficulties of his opportunities and an optimist is one who makes opportunities of his difficulties"
Sunday, July 25, 2010
TO BE PERFECT BEFORE DOING IT ?
DO NOT WAIT FOR THINGS
TO BE PERFECT TO DO IT
It is good to be perfect and it is still good to be perfect in doing things.
However, if you spend too much time to make things to be perfect, it would not take you far as early as you can.
Lots of people always think it must be perfect before it should be carried out, it should be perfect before it is to be shown to someone else.
But they had spent too much of the time in trying to make things to be perfect before they actually started to do it.
I would say that we should do it once we are confidence that it is good enough to be done and not to wait till it is 100% perfect.
And along the way, we would fix it to be perfect.
TO BE PERFECT TO DO IT
It is good to be perfect and it is still good to be perfect in doing things.
However, if you spend too much time to make things to be perfect, it would not take you far as early as you can.
Lots of people always think it must be perfect before it should be carried out, it should be perfect before it is to be shown to someone else.
But they had spent too much of the time in trying to make things to be perfect before they actually started to do it.
I would say that we should do it once we are confidence that it is good enough to be done and not to wait till it is 100% perfect.
And along the way, we would fix it to be perfect.
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
EVERYDAY IS A GOOD AND HAPPY NEW DAY
EVERYDAY IS A GOOD
AND HAPPY NEW DAY
Forget how bad it was the day before.
After a good night sleeping in your favourite bed, you should start everyday with a good new day.
Treat every morning a new morning, everyday a new day.
Leave behind all the pieces of discouraging, frustrating and negative on to the day before today.
Why carry this heavy and useless luggage of negative stuff with you to the new fresh day ?
Live your life happily and start everyday with a GOOD and HAPPY NEW DAY, starting TODAY.
AND HAPPY NEW DAY
Forget how bad it was the day before.
After a good night sleeping in your favourite bed, you should start everyday with a good new day.
Treat every morning a new morning, everyday a new day.
Leave behind all the pieces of discouraging, frustrating and negative on to the day before today.
Why carry this heavy and useless luggage of negative stuff with you to the new fresh day ?
Live your life happily and start everyday with a GOOD and HAPPY NEW DAY, starting TODAY.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
DO NOT COMPLAIN
DO NOT ALWAYS COMPLAIN
Do not always complain when you encounter bad things or difficulties.
Complaining would only lead to negative mind and thinking.
Although constructive and positive critics and feedbacks are good things to do, we have got to avoid excessive critics which could lead to negative complaints.
I still believe everything has its own good and bad faces and it is our own choice and decision to choose which side of faces to think about.
The way to solve it is to try to think the good things around it.
And you know what, it is still free of charge to think good and positive things in this realistic world.
Do not always complain when you encounter bad things or difficulties.
Complaining would only lead to negative mind and thinking.
Although constructive and positive critics and feedbacks are good things to do, we have got to avoid excessive critics which could lead to negative complaints.
I still believe everything has its own good and bad faces and it is our own choice and decision to choose which side of faces to think about.
The way to solve it is to try to think the good things around it.
And you know what, it is still free of charge to think good and positive things in this realistic world.
Sunday, July 18, 2010
ATTITUDE IS THE MOST IMPORTANT
ATTITUDE IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN
Most of people neglect on how important Attitude is compared to Talents, Skills and Knowlegde.
For those who have realised this, do you know that this is also mathematically proven?
Let's consider alphabet A as 1, B as 2, C as 3 and so on till Z as 26.
It is not only higher in value, it hit 100 exactly.
Attitude is really a powerful weapon we need in real life.
TALENT AND KNOWLEDGE
Most of people neglect on how important Attitude is compared to Talents, Skills and Knowlegde.
For those who have realised this, do you know that this is also mathematically proven?
Let's consider alphabet A as 1, B as 2, C as 3 and so on till Z as 26.
It is not only higher in value, it hit 100 exactly.
Attitude is really a powerful weapon we need in real life.
Monday, July 12, 2010
POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE THINKING
THERE IS JUST BETWEEN
ONE LINE FOR
POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE THINKING
There is once a happy family; a father, a mother and two twin children.
One day, when these twin brothers were out at school, there is a break-in to this family house. The father and mother were killed by the burglars.
The twin brothers only come to know this unfortunate news when they reached home happily with their favourite ice-creams in hands. They were really upset over what has happened.
Twenty years passed, there is a serial murder case involving ten victims in five incidents. The murderer was arrested following the fifth and last murder.
The Inspector asked "Why did you do this ?"
The Murderer replied "I want revenge, My parents were killed in a break-in when I was just 10 years old. The murderers are still at large till now. I want to let others know how it felt by losing their parents cos I felt very bad living without my own parents"
The Inspector found out then that he is the Elder brother of the twin brothers and the younger brother happens to be his colleague in the same police headquarter.
Out of curiousity, the Inspector then asked tis colleague "Why did you decide to be a police ?"
Without hesitation, this younger brother replied firmly "My parents were killed in a break-in twenty years ago. I vowed to be a police, to prevent crimes and to uphold justice by arresting those who violates the law"
Twin brothers who have gone through the same misfortune, have chosen different ways to live. One is being positive and the other is being negative. It is really our choice and our thoughts to be either positive or negative.
ONE LINE FOR
POSITIVE AND NEGATIVE THINKING
There is once a happy family; a father, a mother and two twin children.
One day, when these twin brothers were out at school, there is a break-in to this family house. The father and mother were killed by the burglars.
The twin brothers only come to know this unfortunate news when they reached home happily with their favourite ice-creams in hands. They were really upset over what has happened.
Twenty years passed, there is a serial murder case involving ten victims in five incidents. The murderer was arrested following the fifth and last murder.
The Inspector asked "Why did you do this ?"
The Murderer replied "I want revenge, My parents were killed in a break-in when I was just 10 years old. The murderers are still at large till now. I want to let others know how it felt by losing their parents cos I felt very bad living without my own parents"
The Inspector found out then that he is the Elder brother of the twin brothers and the younger brother happens to be his colleague in the same police headquarter.
Out of curiousity, the Inspector then asked tis colleague "Why did you decide to be a police ?"
Without hesitation, this younger brother replied firmly "My parents were killed in a break-in twenty years ago. I vowed to be a police, to prevent crimes and to uphold justice by arresting those who violates the law"
Twin brothers who have gone through the same misfortune, have chosen different ways to live. One is being positive and the other is being negative. It is really our choice and our thoughts to be either positive or negative.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
NO WAITING, PLEASE
DO NOT WAIT,
BUT DO IT NOW
Do not always wait things to happen and then we carry out the next.
We have got to make it happen and carry out the next.
Things won't happen accidentally and won't happen by coincidence as well.
Things happen because of somethings else have happened.
So, stop the habit of saying "Wait till I have got ......... or Wait till it is ........"
As quoted by William B. Sprague:-
"Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot;
but make it hot by striking"
By sitting on and waiting, we might have missed many opoortunities which are just in front of us.
BUT DO IT NOW
Do not always wait things to happen and then we carry out the next.
We have got to make it happen and carry out the next.
Things won't happen accidentally and won't happen by coincidence as well.
Things happen because of somethings else have happened.
So, stop the habit of saying "Wait till I have got ......... or Wait till it is ........"
As quoted by William B. Sprague:-
"Do not wait to strike till the iron is hot;
but make it hot by striking"
By sitting on and waiting, we might have missed many opoortunities which are just in front of us.
Sunday, July 4, 2010
OPPORTUNITIES ARE JUST NEXT TO US
OPPORTUNITIES ARE JUST NEAR US
There is an Assistant Manager who has been working very hard and smart. His boss also thinks highly of him.
One day, the Chief of one of the rival company approached this Assistant Manager and offered him Manager post. He agreed straight away and tendered his resignation to his current boss.
The boss was quite upset as he has long wanted this Manager to able to succeed him one day. He has also planned to promote him to Deputy Chief post the following week.
As this Assistant Manager has resigned, the boss has to promote the other colleague for the Deputy Chief post.
The Assistant Manager who has joined the rival company enjoyed being Manager. However, after a year, he was fired as the rival company was actually making use of him for clients contacts and setting up the management system.
On the other hand, his ex-colleague, who has been promoted as Deputy Chief is now the Chief of the company as the Boss retired.
We have always been searching for opportunities.
We always see others who have been living better than us, how they have achieved and follow their ways to the success.
However, do we see the opportunies that are just within our own grab ?
Opportunities are everywhere and are just near us. But somehow, we tend to look for them on the opposite side.
There is an Assistant Manager who has been working very hard and smart. His boss also thinks highly of him.
One day, the Chief of one of the rival company approached this Assistant Manager and offered him Manager post. He agreed straight away and tendered his resignation to his current boss.
The boss was quite upset as he has long wanted this Manager to able to succeed him one day. He has also planned to promote him to Deputy Chief post the following week.
As this Assistant Manager has resigned, the boss has to promote the other colleague for the Deputy Chief post.
The Assistant Manager who has joined the rival company enjoyed being Manager. However, after a year, he was fired as the rival company was actually making use of him for clients contacts and setting up the management system.
On the other hand, his ex-colleague, who has been promoted as Deputy Chief is now the Chief of the company as the Boss retired.
We have always been searching for opportunities.
We always see others who have been living better than us, how they have achieved and follow their ways to the success.
However, do we see the opportunies that are just within our own grab ?
Opportunities are everywhere and are just near us. But somehow, we tend to look for them on the opposite side.
Saturday, July 3, 2010
THINK THE OTHER WAY ROUND
THINK OF THE THINGS YOU DON'T GET THAT YOU DON'T WANT
We always think that we have strived hard enough to pursue, go through the process and complete the journey to achieve somethings that we have long wanted.
But sometimes, it is really to no avail.
We start to think why everything just does not go smoothly, why we can not get what we really have wanted.
By thinking that way, it is only not be helpful to you, it would however make things worse.
You would start to think that all things have not gone your way smoothly.
And ultimately, depression is the worst that we would not have wanted to see.
Instead of thinking what you can not achieve what you have wanted, why not think the other way round that we also do not get what we have not wanted too.
There are people out there who live worse than us.
We should be relieved that we are not one of those who are really in deep troubles.
I like this quotes by Oscar Wilde :-
"If you don't get everything you want,
think of the things you don't get that you don't want"
We always think that we have strived hard enough to pursue, go through the process and complete the journey to achieve somethings that we have long wanted.
But sometimes, it is really to no avail.
We start to think why everything just does not go smoothly, why we can not get what we really have wanted.
By thinking that way, it is only not be helpful to you, it would however make things worse.
You would start to think that all things have not gone your way smoothly.
And ultimately, depression is the worst that we would not have wanted to see.
Instead of thinking what you can not achieve what you have wanted, why not think the other way round that we also do not get what we have not wanted too.
There are people out there who live worse than us.
We should be relieved that we are not one of those who are really in deep troubles.
I like this quotes by Oscar Wilde :-
"If you don't get everything you want,
think of the things you don't get that you don't want"
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