DO NOT REJECT CRITICS,
BUT USE THEM
Most people would only like to hear what is good.
Most of them hate to hear critics.
Instead, each time the critics come in from one ear are often being thrown out through the other ear.
Critics are useless when you think you do not need them.
But do we really think carefully that Critics are actually good to our ownselves ?
I would think that we should not throw them out.
Instead, blend them as a solid foundation that would lead you to a higher stand.
Each time you have got a critic, it should be one of the concern that you are looking for to improve yourselves.
be positive and you will find your ways .......
Friday, January 28, 2011
Wednesday, January 19, 2011
NEGATIVITY = POISON (Part 2)
NEGATIVITY IS POISONOUS
(Part 2)
As highlighted in my last post on "Negativity is Poisonous", negative mindset could turn out to be quite horrible.
We have to stop thinking about negativity.
We have to get rid of those negative mindset being set into our brain.
Some people do not wish to be successful and they would tell themselves that it is not necessary to think positive or think big.
But do they know that even if they do not want to think big, they would still need to get rid of those negative mindset ? And why is that so ?
The problem here is that if you do not get rid of it, it means you are nurturing it.
Negative mindset grow in an even faster pace when you ignore it.
It could be harmful to your own health.
And when it hit the peak, it could even be harmful to your own life.
(Part 2)
As highlighted in my last post on "Negativity is Poisonous", negative mindset could turn out to be quite horrible.
We have to stop thinking about negativity.
We have to get rid of those negative mindset being set into our brain.
Some people do not wish to be successful and they would tell themselves that it is not necessary to think positive or think big.
But do they know that even if they do not want to think big, they would still need to get rid of those negative mindset ? And why is that so ?
The problem here is that if you do not get rid of it, it means you are nurturing it.
Negative mindset grow in an even faster pace when you ignore it.
It could be harmful to your own health.
And when it hit the peak, it could even be harmful to your own life.
Tuesday, January 18, 2011
NEGATIVITY = POISON
NEGATIVITY IS POISONOUS
We all know that it is not good to be negative.
But do we really know that it is bad to our health as well ?
Having a negative mindset is like having a slow killing poison continously circulated within our body.
It may not take immediate effect but it may kill us off eventually.
When it does, it is quite terrific enough as it is a formless, odourless, colourless and invisible kind of poison.
We all know that it is not good to be negative.
But do we really know that it is bad to our health as well ?
Having a negative mindset is like having a slow killing poison continously circulated within our body.
It may not take immediate effect but it may kill us off eventually.
When it does, it is quite terrific enough as it is a formless, odourless, colourless and invisible kind of poison.
Monday, January 17, 2011
LIFE IS A PROCESS
LIFE IS A PROCESS,
NOT A RESULT
Life is a process and it is not a result.
And you can't just delete it away with an eraser.
Everything that you have gone through, it would be a true fact.
You can tell lie to the world, but you yourselves know it.
And you just can't lie to yourselves.
Just live with it. It is really the process that counts.
NOT A RESULT
Life is a process and it is not a result.
And you can't just delete it away with an eraser.
Everything that you have gone through, it would be a true fact.
You can tell lie to the world, but you yourselves know it.
And you just can't lie to yourselves.
Just live with it. It is really the process that counts.
Sunday, January 16, 2011
LEARN FROM OTHERS MISTAKES
LEARN FROM OTHERS MISTAKES
Everytime we make a mistake, we gain an experience, and we would not make the same mistake again.
But sometimes, we just do not have much opportunities to learn from making mistakes.
So isn't it a conflict to say "when you make mistake you gain experience" but in real life, we are not allowed to make too many of them and not to make an even one drastic mistake ?
That is why we have to observe sometimes or maybe at any point of time.
What to observe ? Observe mistakes by other people.
If we can learn from others mistakes without making the mistake ourselves, wouldn't it be great ?
I like this quote by Alfred Sheinwold :
"Learn all you can from the mistakes of others.
You won't have time to make them all yourself"
Think about it.
Do not make mistake on purpose just to gain experience out of it.
Everytime we make a mistake, we gain an experience, and we would not make the same mistake again.
But sometimes, we just do not have much opportunities to learn from making mistakes.
So isn't it a conflict to say "when you make mistake you gain experience" but in real life, we are not allowed to make too many of them and not to make an even one drastic mistake ?
That is why we have to observe sometimes or maybe at any point of time.
What to observe ? Observe mistakes by other people.
If we can learn from others mistakes without making the mistake ourselves, wouldn't it be great ?
I like this quote by Alfred Sheinwold :
"Learn all you can from the mistakes of others.
You won't have time to make them all yourself"
Think about it.
Do not make mistake on purpose just to gain experience out of it.
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
TAKE RESPONSIBILITY
TAKE ON "RESPONSIBILITY"
Complaints, keep saying unfairness, keep moaning over things that have passed are just a few ways of avoiding responsibility.
One has to take responsibility to be able to succeed.
To be successful is not being having talents and hardworking.
It shall have the element of taking responsibility.
One shall not be considered successful if one has not been able to take responsibility.
It is your choice whether to take on or not the responsibility.
If you choose not to, then you shall not be complaining on the outcome.
When you do not get the results that you have wanted, then do not blame others.
And it is because you have chosen your own results in the first place.
Avoiding responsibility is actually avoiding failure and it could be blocking your way to success.
Complaints, keep saying unfairness, keep moaning over things that have passed are just a few ways of avoiding responsibility.
One has to take responsibility to be able to succeed.
To be successful is not being having talents and hardworking.
It shall have the element of taking responsibility.
One shall not be considered successful if one has not been able to take responsibility.
It is your choice whether to take on or not the responsibility.
If you choose not to, then you shall not be complaining on the outcome.
When you do not get the results that you have wanted, then do not blame others.
And it is because you have chosen your own results in the first place.
Avoiding responsibility is actually avoiding failure and it could be blocking your way to success.
Monday, January 10, 2011
WE SHALL BE IN CONTROL
WE SHALL BE THE ONE TO
CONTROL OUR OWN LIVES
We should realise and always remember that we are the one who should control our own lives.
Whether it is being healthy or illness, being rich or poor, being happy or upset, strength or weakness and so on.
We should not have let and should not be letting others decide our own lives, fate or destiny.
Instead, we, our ownselves shall be the one who decides.
Otherwise, it would be like being living for others or living with obligation to others.
CONTROL OUR OWN LIVES
We should realise and always remember that we are the one who should control our own lives.
Whether it is being healthy or illness, being rich or poor, being happy or upset, strength or weakness and so on.
We should not have let and should not be letting others decide our own lives, fate or destiny.
Instead, we, our ownselves shall be the one who decides.
Otherwise, it would be like being living for others or living with obligation to others.
Saturday, January 8, 2011
NEW YEAR RESOLUTION - 2011
NEW YEAR RESOLUTION
FOR THE YEAR 2011
It has been party time or vacation time for some people for the past one to two weeks.
It is now time to think for the Year 2011.
We should be thinking of our New Year Resolution by now. Today is already 08 Jan 2011.
What to do, what to achieve or what to avoid.
My suggestion is not to think too much first.
Get a piece of paper and a pen. Write them down.
Filter off those unrealistic things.
Then it is job done.
You would not have them if you do not write them down now even till one year later, it is still nothing. Trust me !!!
FOR THE YEAR 2011
It has been party time or vacation time for some people for the past one to two weeks.
It is now time to think for the Year 2011.
We should be thinking of our New Year Resolution by now. Today is already 08 Jan 2011.
What to do, what to achieve or what to avoid.
My suggestion is not to think too much first.
Get a piece of paper and a pen. Write them down.
Filter off those unrealistic things.
Then it is job done.
You would not have them if you do not write them down now even till one year later, it is still nothing. Trust me !!!
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